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Safeguarding Civilization July 30, 2009

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robert kennedy

An excerpt from Make Gentle the Life of this World- The vision of Robert F. Kennedy

We have treasured our educational system also as a firm pillar of the liberal community. This faith, however, is not unanimously shared. One critic has said: “Education (is) by its very nature an individual matter…not geared to mass production. It does not produce people who instinctively go the same way…(yet) our millions learn the same lessons and spend the same thing at exactly the same time. For one reason and another we are more and more ignoring differences, if not trying to obliterate them. We seem headed toward a standardization of the mind, what Goethe called ‘the deadly commonplace that fetters us all.’” This speaker was not part of a Berkeley rally; it was Edith Hamilton, one of our greatest classicists.

 

Friends with Flair July 29, 2009

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Time and availability of dads had us going out on a limb with this one. We started a playdate with the Quinns in the late afternoon! There was lots of swimming.

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(left to right) Sadie’s feet, Elijah, Declan, and Alistair.

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Scuba Sadie

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Scuba Liam

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How to get waterlogged kids out of the pool? PIZZA!

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Somewhere we lost a few of the kids. While cleaning up the patio, we came in to these 3 little cuties (Sadie, Liam, and Alistair) who moved a chair over to the counter to gain access to the fresh-baked chocolate chip cookies. Brilliant!

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Even Motley got in on the action. Here Alistair shares some snugly time with our sweet piggie.

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Though we have been with Liam during his breathing treatments before (Liam has chronic asthma that is easily exacerbated and needs regular nebulizer treatments), Sadie seemed to notice it for the first time on this evening. She was curious and for the next several days we had quite a few discussions about premature babies (Liam was 7 weeks premature) and the issues that often come with that as well as smoking, air pollution, and illness as situational issues that can exacerbate his predisposition to breathing problems.

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Me: “Wow, Liam. That makes your eye look really big!” Liam turns around with a dry smile. Liam: “Does it make my butt look big?” I laughed so hard I nearly cried.

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The big boys were peaceful late in the evening- building with Legos and constructing marble runs. It was definitely different to see two boys who are usually so silly and wild with each other sitting quietly with intention. This was a fabulous evening. We’re trying new things and going with the flow and it’s just wonderful. Our playdate ended shortly after 11PM and it was all fun, games, and (as always) loaded with life learning.

 

What to do with Big Kids… July 29, 2009

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Elijah and Sadie, at 45 and 43 pounds respectively, are rapidly approaching the maximum weight limit for the bike trailer and Mama’s ability to pull (the only reason I can still do it now is b/c Texas is so wonderfully flat(tish). We love to make grocery shopping a journey and give Mama some exercise by riding to the grocery store. We’re starting to brainstorm a new way to do this.

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Apparently they got used to being squooshed and sought a new way when they got out of the trailer… Since this occasion, we have tried the children riding their bikes as I pull the wagon (in which to bring home the groceries). We have options!

 

 

Moonflower July 29, 2009

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We got some moonflower seeds from another Freecycler and they sprouted right up! We anxiously awaited the evening bloom of our first flower.

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Of course, after all that waiting, the children fell asleep before the bloom popped. I took a zillion pictures but, as it turns out, they hang around for a little while in the morning!

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The fragrance is beautiful!

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Backyard Tour July 27, 2009

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So much time has been spent gardening and sprucing and I never seem to document it so here you go!

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Here be the vegetable garden! Corn, bell peppers, bush beans, broccoli, sunflowers, garlic, onions, and zucchini were all started. About 6 zucchinis have been eaten in a number of ways and were great! Those plants have now died in the Texas sun. The corn started and we even had some little ears but, once again, heat burned them to a brown crisp. It turns out that the onions and the garlic were not planted at the appropriate time so they were also pulled.

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We’ve eaten 3 green peppers from the garden. I’m hoping for zillions as this is a staple in our house. The plants have gotten much bigger and are flowering again so I’m hopeful.

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The sunflowers went in at Sadie’s request. They were beautiful but did not follow what we had read about them- that their name comes from their flower following the sun throughout the day. Ours would rather peak over the fence into our neighbor’s window. When they passed, we cut them down (hearty, tree-like fellows!) and found where the seeds come from (inside the center of the flower). Not sure when to harvest them as both of our long past flowers had big shells but virtually no seed in side.

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The next bush bean planting will be several more plants. They are delicious and we made a great stir fry with our first harvest of them. They, too, appear to be working on a second round.

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This is the back left corner of our yard. The kids call it ‘the bird corner’ because this is where the bird feeders and bath are and, thus, where the multitudes of mourning doves and house sparrows eat, bathe, and socialize. We also dug a backyard pond which contains hornwort and anacharis (plants) for pond aeration and 3 feeder goldfish that have grown tremendously. There are other water plants that may do more next year than this.

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This is the front left corner of the backyard and the final product of the digging of the doggie doo composter (an absolute bear of a job to dig in Texas clay soil- just ask Chris). It is working well. No more plastic bags of poop going in the garbage (2 big dogs make a lot of poop). No smell (I was worried as the heat came that we would become the fragrant home). No bugs. It will make a world of difference next year for our perennial beds which are sorely in need of some nutrients. To the right is an herb garden that we made inside of a tire that the kids and I removed from the drainage area and rolled home. The herbs are all potted because they are pervasive and there is potential for the chemicals from the rubber to leach into their roots should they be directly potted in the tire. Here we have cilantro (killed from the heat while we were in Disney and replaced by thyme (you can never have too much of that :) , sweet marjoram, and basil.

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This tire (recovered the same day from the drainage area) sits to the left of the in-ground composter and houses lemon balm, peppermint, and curled parsley.

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Standing by the gate (at the herb tires/composter), this is the view of the sideyard to the bird corner.

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These are two patio/pool shots. There are perennial beds all around the pool which will require more watering (we were cutting back) because they are definitely not as beautiful as last year. There is also a shallow box in the far back right corner with 6 strawberry plants (the kids were eating one every few days but I’ve read that they yield very little the first year) and 2 early girl tomato plants (a tremendous amount of tomatoes were eaten while we were in Disney either by caterpillars, rats, or both. We managed to eat one- delicious- and have two more now almost ready for harvest. Elijah says he will not eat tomatoes from a store ever again. They’re disgusting! Agreed.

 

Geo-Kids July 18, 2009

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I started out the day with the ‘greatest’ idea! We had gotten the kids one of those kits that come with a block that they bang and chip away at to reveal the hidden gems inside. I thought we could go on a walk, pretend we were explorers, hunt for the block, then chip out the gems. The kids didn’t get it. Why don’t we just get suited up and look for real ones? Slap in the head. These kids live in the real world and know no bounds. Why pretend to do something you can actually do? New plan.

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We drove to some DORBA (Dallas Off Road Bicycle Association) trails nearby and began our exploration. We noticed many beautiful flowers along the way in addition to busy insects, squirrels, and a feral cat.

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We also came upon a scientific study in progress.

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It was a hot one so we decided to bring our finds home and break them in the shade of the garage.

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Pool goggles double as safety glasses!

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We found some really amazing colors and designs inside some of the rocks. Some of them were just too tough to break! And some were determined to be cement fill.

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Impervious to Rage July 18, 2009

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Sadie loves to use my ipod. I usually put on some O.A.R. or Jack Johnson or the like to which she can boogie. This time she told me to just let it play. Rage Against the Machine it is! She rocked out a little, sat down on the couch, and fell asleep.

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Grammy’s Here! July 18, 2009

Chris’ mom came to visit all the way from New Hampshire! We were all very excited to spend time with her!

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Here the kids greet her at the airport with a million things to say.

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We stopped at Christina’s for some yummy Mexican on the way back to the house from the airport. Such a good restaurant and everyone must have a little (or a lot) of Mexican in Texas.

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We spent the rest of the afternoon playing in the pool and relaxing in the hot tub. The kids were super-psyched to show Grammy their extensive self-taught swimming skills. Margaritas were poured, water fights ensued, frisbees were tossed, and snuggles were had.

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Chris had a league basketball game that night and was thrilled to have his mom present like the ‘old’ days. While he was warming up, the kids took Grammy on a short tour around a beautiful portion of Bear Creek Park. They rode their bikes and we hustled to keep up. June 7  2009 067

Chris’ team burned it up. It’s inspiring to see grown men doing something they love to do and putting all of their critical thinking and critical mass into it.

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Sadie snuggles up with Grammy for part of the game.

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Friday was a trip into Ft. Worth! We wandered around the Ft. Worth Water Gardens and Sadie, Grammy, and Chris went down into The Active Pool. It’s amazing everytime. Elijah prefers to watch from above.

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The kids and I climbed The Mountain and looked out over the city.

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This picture’s just cute. Two hot kids sporting their Boston-wear that Grammy brought.

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From the Water Gardens, we were off to the Ft. Worth Historic Stockyards. We wandered around appreciating the ambience and had some BBQ at Riscky’s (another must when one travels to Texas). Elijah saw the flying clock above outside a storefront and said, “I’ve heard time flies, but that’s ridiculous!” That boy is a crackerjack.June 7  2009 099

Yes, then back to the pool for more swimming/play!

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Saturday was the 2nd tennis clinic that Sadie and Elijah were burning to attend. Unfortunately, there were just too many kids and the location was shifted last minute to a parking lot for the little kids rather than a court. It was clearly not as organized or fun as the first that we had attended. These instructors also had a heavy focus on doing it ‘right’ versus doing it ‘wrong’ which made a big difference in the energy. That didn’t squelch the kids desire to play, though- just affirmed that the country club with the instructors that focused on fun, games, and engagement is the place for us! The kids were really happy that Grammy got to see them wield their racquets a bit.

Thank you so much for coming to visit us, Grammy! We really enjoyed our time with you and look forward to doing it again soon.

 

Dogs and Kids July 17, 2009

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We brought the dogs to the dog park and the kids to the kid park all in one day! All had a great time.

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The dogs got lots of attention from the children who don’t have dogs at home. They were walked and patted to their hearts’ content.

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Elijah and Declan meander to the car.

 

Math Fun July 7, 2009

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I had a million things to do and two kids seeking adventures. What to do?

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One of the tasks that was on my list of things to do was making snack mix. Elijah has recently unlocked the keys to reading and is loving practicing all over the place and Sadie loves to cook. I wrote the recipe down on a dry-erase board, set out the ingredients, and all of the measuring cups and they set to work. It came out delicious.

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A little while later, the kids could be heard counting heads vs. tails flips in Elijah’s room. I wrote ‘heads’ and ‘tails’ on a dry-erase board and handed it over. They continued to flip and tally looking at probability.

They were engaged and happy. I got some ’stuff’ done and we reconvened to play together.